the dry run

Guess what.  I hit a new "stage" in my unbuying this month.  A very uncool stage.  I have become painfully bored of my closet.  

I mostly find myself wishing it all just disappeared and that I could start fresh.  Wondering why Stacy and Clinton couldn't just throw it all out for me and hand me a credit card.  Where is this new emotion coming from?  Have I found my threshold for not having something new to wear?  Or is the excitement and energy of summer arriving just making me all wanty and dissatisfied?

I shouldn't overreact too much.  I'm still having some fun outfitting myself.

                     Spring 2014 outfits from my closet                     

On account of my boredom, I made a surprising choice while at the mall recently with my mom.  Upon walking through spring/summer 2014 collections, I decided that maybe I've become set enough in my non-shopping ways to handle trying something on without freaking out.  

I wanted almost everything I saw.  This being the issue that got me in this mess in the first place, and the reason why during the last ten months I have avoided the mall almost completely.  I tried on a dozen or so items and these were my thoughts:

• Perk Alert!  When you aren't buying, price doesn't matter!
• Curse you Rachel Roy, Kensie and Denim & Supply for having the most wear-worthy, gorgeously designed summer selections
• I really don't miss the feeling of trying on a thousand things and being frustrated or depressed because only one or two things fit (almost) perfectly

Kensie French Terry Dress + Zip | Kensie Drapey French Terry Dress + Embellishments
Kensie Drapey French Terry Dress

          Rachel Roy Dreamcatcher Maxi | Denim & Supply Graphic Drapey T       
           Rachel Roy Flower Cross Tank Dress | Denim & Supply Call of the Wild T           

Overall my experiment of will power was good.  It allowed me to learn a few new things about myself and see how far I've come.  And it definitely didn't hurt that I had someone supportive there to help keep me on track! 

I came, I saw, I conquered.  
Sarah xo

Unbuyer's Tip #15: Keep your eyes open to the plights and plans of others and encourage them.  It is so very important.

poppin' tags

Today was a mini-milestone day.  I used to be famous for having a closet full of lovely unworn clothing, tags still on.  When girlfriends came a-borrowing they stepped into a walk-in-closet boutique where they were often the first to wear one of my sitting pretty pieces.

I've never been the type to wear a just purchased item right away.  I savour them.  The newness.  A box of Nine Wests can sit at the end of my bed unopened for two weeks.  A never washed pair of AG jeans, still folded in the bag, for even longer.  Sometimes it could bring me just as much joy to know it was there, and new, than as if I were wearing it for all to see.  It hasn't always been about the outfit or the styling of it.  Sometimes the having of it was the best part.  I found that once the tag was off and the flashy new friend was in circulation, the love remained, but the rush was gone.

I've gone months and even years before wearing a new item or "beginning" a new hand bag.  The more I wanted it, the happier I am to have it, the longer it typically takes to cut the cord.  The one with the price tag attached.

Today, I wore the last truly new article in my closet.  I bought it in Los Angeles last June and loved it ever since.  Hanging white lace, just waiting.

Today, I was poppin' tag.

Sarah xo


Unbuyer's Tip #14: Take a moment to truly appreciate the luxuries you spend your money on.  If it was worth having, it's worth savouring.

moving up

As of April 1st we've been living in a new home, and as of April 23rd I'm four months from the end of my year.  It's scary how time flies and how new situations and new habits can feel normal in no time.

Less than a month in our new condo and it almost feels like we've been here all along.  That might partly be because we are still actually in the same condo building, we just moved up in the world.  From the fifth floor to the ninth.

When I found out we were moving I had some major anxiety over the redecorating fever that was to come.  How could I possibly set up a new home without new items— picked out perfectly for each room, each wall, each spacial inspiration!?  The daydreaming has begun and I'm making a list for September!

LIVING ROOM
metallic throw pillows | brushed gold floor lamp | picture frame artwork

SPARE BEDROOM
globe lamp | overexposed photography | 1960's teak dresser

DEN
leather butterfly chair | mid-century modern brass lamp | aztec rug | modern industrial cabinet

MASTER BEDROOM
floor length track curtains | restored french provincial dresser

I feel inspired and can't wait to get going with the new decor come fall.  In the meantime, if you happen to be over, please know we are a work in progress!

Sarah xo

Unbuyer's Tip #13: When you can't do, dream!  Exercise your creativity by making virtual design boards.

i heart ny

As alluded to in my previous post, I went on a trip to New York City last month.  The trip was somewhat spontaneous, so I had just enough time to freak out about not being able to shop, but not enough time to have factored in some sort of NYC Shopping clause into my year of unbuying.

Upon announcing we were going to New York, a few friends suggested that I not let the trip to the Big Apple go un-shopped, that there must be some sort of allowance for a trip like this.  Luckily, the friends we traveled with are very aware of my "addiction" and were a big support in not only encouraging other events while in the City, but also went un-shopped themselves!

I would love to lament about how hard it was not to shop and brag of how strong I was to stick to my goals, but to be honest, the temptation passed almost unnoticed.  This was my third, and so far best, trip to NYC and I truthfully didn't even care about shopping.  The City is so alive and enchanting that all I wanted to do was walk, see, take in and be a part of the bigger exhilarating thing.  I would live in NYC in a heartbeat, if it'd have me.  

I could spend hours writing about every amazing moment that took place during the four day trip, but instead, for the purpose of this blog, I will instead take moments to share in pictures some of what I wore while living a dream.

You'll notice the theme was warm coats and toques.  It was so cold, but hours of walking and ducking in for cocktails helped!  Next time we hang out feel free to ask for my stories of New York, just the thought leaves me smiling.

Sarah xo

P.S.— I passed my six month mark!

Unbuyer's Tip #12: Let the doubt that others have in you fuel your determination to succeed.  

pack attack

Ever wonder how the fashion obsessed pack for a trip?  So do I.  I definitely have my process in place, refined by years of frequent travel, but I wonder sometimes if I'm the only one.  When it comes down to it I suppose we all find and do what works for us— so let me share what works for me!

Packing is no small feat in my house.  It is an event that I plan for and have to calendar, because yes, it can take that much time and effort.  As I said, years of travel have brought me to this place, where I know what I must do to have the best possible (outfit) experience once I hit my destination.

As I was packing for a trip earlier this month, I decided to list out what I do:

Step 1. Make a list of the dates I am away and the major activities on those dates 
Step 2. Begin soundtrack (for this trip it was Body Talk by Robyn)
Step 3. Assess the closet and pull out all possible options— taking into account weather, activities, travel companions and current fashion trends at my destination  

Helpful Hint: Find a fashion blogger who lives where you are going! (mystylepill.com & citybrewed.com were my top pics for this trip)

My Style Pill Blog

Step 4. Try on potential outfits for each day (usually a.m. and p.m. outfits) and eliminate the clothes that don't factor in
Step 5. Take a final pass at these outfits and see if I can eliminate anything, my goal being to bring pieces that can be used in 2-3 outfits.  

Helpful Hint: Pack one bonus casual outfit and one bonus evening outfit— this can help in case of clothing emergencies or if a friend has under-packed!

Step 6. Select handbags and accessories for each outfit 
Step 7. Choose 2 or 3 pieces of outerwear that will work with all outfits
Step 8. As a final step I take a photo of all items I am packing.  If you've ever lost your luggage, you will understand why I do this!

Bonus Step: Depending on the man in your life, you may need to repeat steps 1 through 8

This packing session was a success and my trip went off wardrobe disaster free!  Look out for my next post on how I handled a visit to one of the best shopping cities on the globe...

Sarah xo


Unbuyer's Tip #11: Always look on the bright side!  This was the first vacation where I have been able to pack my bags FULL because I didn't need to save room for purchases!

winter wearables

Entering month six and hopefully exiting the worst of winter.  Having what I consider a mild winter this year has really helped my situation.  More than ever I am relying on all the clothes in my closet, regardless of season, to give me more outfit options.  It's been a real wake-up call that over the past 20 weeks I have not repeated the same outfit.  Clearly, I do not need to shop.

Here are a few snapshots of my winter wears.

I'm learning to really love the experience of putting together new outfits using pieces I would normally never have thought to pair.  More honestly, I wasn't using as much creativity to pair things because when you always have new things, every outfit feels effortlessly fashion forward and satisfying.  

I'll tell you what would really satisfy me though... a clause that would let me buy the fab five pictured below that I've recently come accross.  Every outfit would be perfect if I had these to cycle in!

Clockwise from top Left:
1. Leather and Wool Vest 2. Christopher Kon Toni Satchel w/ Cross Body 

3. Oversized Knit Sweater 4. William Rast Faux Fur Hooded Parka 

5. Sperry Top-Sider suede lace up Princeton Bootie

To end this post off today, I share with you a more personal picture— a shameful screenshot of me almost begging for this handbag.  Sometimes this is really, really hard!

Pressing onward,

Sarah xo

Unbuyer's Tip #10: It's ok to feel proud of yourself for a job well done— let the lifestyle choice you are making sink in and take a moment to truly appreciate your inner strength.